It Is What It Isn't

"It is what it is."  I hate this phrase.  I think it is over-used and is seriously starting to give me a headache.   I would say this phrase has been worn out in the past two years and we need to put it to rest.

I’m really not sure what pisses me off about this phrase.  It might be because I feel it is s cop-out. 

Have nothing else to say?  Just say, “It is what it is.”  Almost ends the conversation immediately, like a showstopper.  It should come with rolling credits.

Does someone want to have a conversation and get your professional opinion on something but you don’t want to give it or you are bored with where the conversation is going?  “Well, you know, it is what it is.”  Thanks, buddy.  I appreciate you taking the time to think about the issues.

Someone tells you they are really having a tough time with family and their life?  “It is what it is.”  Thanks for reminding me that my life is nothing but a dust bunny under the couch to you.

Some people say it as a form of frustration.  Or boredom.  Or know-it-all, self righteous bs.  It is a fancy way of saying, “oh well” or “who the hell cares.” 

You know who cares?  This girl (who doesn’t use that stupid phrase).  I care.  I actually may not give a rat’s ass about what you were talking about, but you know what?  I will fake it.  You know why?  Because I know you have faked it for me and I have appreciated it…